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I help women in their 30s tired of not being where they "should" be by now to stop comparing, find clarity & confidence and to take the action to create a life they are proud of
Hi, I'm Philomena
Turning 30 was supposed to be a milestone, but it turned into an unexpected whirlwind of self-doubt and anxiety for me. On the morning of my party, I woke up overwhelmed by the weight of my alleged failures: still living at home, single, unsure about my career, overweight and feeling completely lost. It was a moment that nearly broke me, but instead, it set me on a journey of self-discovery that changed my life. From battling depression to finding my purpose through life coaching, I’ve learned to live life on my terms.
A Gift for you - My Free downloadable eBook
I wrote this eBook because I understand how shit it can feel to be in your 30s and think you should have it all figured out—career success, a perfect relationship, or owning a home. Life doesn’t always stick to this fucking plan!
I’ve been in that place of feeling overwhelmed, stuck, and constantly questioning if I’m falling short or falling apart. Comparing yourself to others can make it so hard to stay focused on your own path. This eBook offers practical steps to help you gain clarity, build confidence, and take meaningful action.
It’s about discovering what you truly want and creating a life that excites you and fuck everyone else.
Think of this as your personal guide to thriving in your 30s.
Let’s push past the “shoulds” and start building a life YOU ARE genuinely proud of.
What is coaching?
Let’s be real, coaching isn’t some one-way street where I tell you how to live your life. It’s a partnership. We team up, get super clear on what you want, and co-create a plan that fits who you are. This isn’t about some one-size-fits-all strategy—it’s about you feeling heard, valued, and actually fucking understood in a safe space where you can let your guard down.
We dive deep into the mindset work because, let’s be honest, that’s where the real shifts happen. It’s about untangling all that comparison crap, flipping the script on the limiting beliefs, and building a mindset that’s not just positive but growth-focused.
I’m here to hold you accountable, sure, but I’m also here to support you. We’re not just dreaming about some fantasy life—we’re putting strategies into action that align with your goals. It’s about co-creating a life that’s not just good on paper but feels fucking amazing to live.
You’ve spent too much time feeling like you should be somewhere else by now, comparing yourself to others. Now it’s time to build a life you’re proud of—on your terms. So, if you're ready to stop playing small and start making shit happen, let's do this.
What is a Discovery Session?
A discovery session is a virtual face-to-face complimentary call where we break through barriers and dive deep into your current challenges and goals as a woman in her 30s feeling tired of the “shoulds” of life. Through thought-provoking questions, we’ll uncover what's holding you back and help you gain clarity in what changes need to happen to break through. This one-on-one conversation is designed to boost your confidence, craft a personalised action plan, and set you on a path to creating a life you’re truly proud of and not care – shoulda woulda coulda and all that….