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What is Coaching? 

Let’s be real, coaching isn’t some one-way street where I tell you how to live your life. It’s a partnership. We team up, get super clear on what you want, and co-create a plan that fits who you are. This isn’t about some one-size-fits-all strategy—it’s about you feeling heard, valued, and actually fucking understood in a safe space where you can let your guard down.

How we do this is meet up weekly virtually. 

We dive deep into the mindset work because, let’s be honest, that’s where the real shifts happen. It’s about untangling all that comparison crap, flipping the script on the limiting beliefs, and building a mindset that’s not just positive but growth-focused.

I’m here to hold you accountable, sure, but I’m also here to support you. We’re not just dreaming about some fantasy life—we’re putting strategies into action that align with your goals. It’s about co-creating a life that’s not just good on paper but feels fucking amazing to live.

You’ve spent too much time feeling like you should be somewhere else by now, comparing yourself to others. Now it’s time to build a life you’re proud of—on your terms. So, if you're ready to stop playing small and start making shit happen, let's do this.

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Is Coaching for  me?? 
Let me ask you......

  • Sick of feeling like everyone else has it all together while you're stuck spinning your wheels?

  • Doubting yourself constantly, like you're not hitting the mark on what you should be achieving?

  • Always second-guessing your choices, wondering if you’ve somehow missed the memo on how to do this whole life thing?

  • Struggling to juggle it all—work, relationships, life—and just feeling completely burnt out?

  • Low-key panicking about where you’re headed and wondering if you're even on the right path?

  • Finding it hard to get your shit in gear because you have no clue where to start or what direction to take?

  • Haunted by missed chances and feeling like you’re in a mad race to “catch up” with where you think you should be by now?

  • Constantly playing catch-up, yet never actually feeling like you’re getting ahead in life?

  • Wandering around without a clear map, unsure of your next move, and feeling stuck as hell?

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Turning 30 hit me harder than I expected, and I’m not even the kind to stress about age. But planning that damn birthday party sent me into a spiral—like, where the fuck am I in life? I woke up that morning feeling like an absolute failure. Single, still living at home, no clue about my career, battling my body image—and almost cancelling the whole thing because I was convinced no one would even show up unless they pitied me.

Spoiler: they came. My family pushed me to go ahead with it, and yeah, the night was amazing, surrounded by friends and family. But that sinking feeling of not being where I should be? It lingered. I jumped from job to job, spiraled into depression, and wasted time in a relationship that was absolute shit. It wasn’t until I found life coaching that things started to shift.

Coaching didn’t give me a magic formula, but it made me focus on the right now and where I want to go, instead of obsessing over where I thought I should be. It gave me the tools to stop feeling guilty about not fitting into society’s mold and to start prioritizing my own happiness. I learned that it’s not about ticking boxes or impressing anyone. It’s about making choices that actually fucking matter to me.

Now, I’m in a beautiful (rented!) apartment, living with a partner who gets me, spending my time and money on things that light me up, and learning to embrace the messy, unpredictable ride that is life. And you know what? That feels pretty damn good.

If you’re tired of feeling like you’re always behind or stuck in comparison mode, it’s time to rewrite that shit. Start figuring out what you want, not what you think everyone expects of you. It’s your life, and it’s time to make it one you’re proud to wake up to every single day.

Why me ?
Em .... Cause I get it ! 

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Let’s get one thing straight—being in your 30s and feeling like you’re not “there” yet? Total mindfuck. We’ve been fed this idea that by now, we should have it all figured out. The dream job, perfect body, maybe kids or marriage, a mortgage… whatever. But here’s the truth: there’s no one-size-fits-all timeline, and fuck the comparison game that makes you feel like you’re falling behind.

Here’s what I’m offering: a 12-week personalized program that actually helps you stop the constant second-guessing. Weekly online sessions, tailored to you—no cookie-cutter bullshit. We’ll break down those goals, figure out what really matters to you (not what you think you “should” be doing), and create a roadmap to get you there, step by step.

This isn’t about me handing you a checklist. This is about creating a space where you feel heard, understood, and like your dreams aren’t just possible, they’re fucking doable. We dig deep, clear the mental crap, and get practical about making real moves in your life—whether it's your career, confidence, or just living without the weight of everyone else’s expectations.

By the end of 12 weeks, you won’t just be setting goals—you’ll have the tools, the mindset, and the confidence to actually live the life you’ve been putting off. So, if you’re tired of feeling stuck and ready to start making real, no-BS progress, let’s do this

How does it work?
   What to expect .....  

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My coaching approach is all about empathy because I’ve been where you are. I get the struggle, the frustration, and the feeling of being stuck. I’m here to help you navigate through that shit with compassion and real support. Since October 2022, I’ve been an accredited coach, and I’m currently leveling up to Master Practitioner in NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) to smash through those mental barriers and create lasting change.

On top of that, I’m a Reiki Level 2 practitioner, so I bring some energy healing into our work for a holistic boost. I’ve got diplomas in various fields and loads of business experience, giving me a solid mix of practical, strategic advice and emotional support.

My mission? To offer you a safe, no-judgment zone where you can be understood and empowered. We’ll tackle your goals, crush those obstacles, and craft a clear action plan to build the life you’re excited and proud of. With my blend of empathy, qualifications, and hands-on experience, I’m here to help you fucking thrive.

My Coaching Style 

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Look, I get it—money’s tight, and the last thing you need is someone asking you to invest in something you're not sure will work.

But here's the deal: my coaching is designed to be affordable because I genuinely want to help you get your shit together without stressing over your bank balance.

We’ll figure out a payment plan that doesn’t feel like a burden, if necessary so you can start chasing the life you want without the financial anxiety.

And honestly, I’m not here to waste your time or money (or mine). That’s why I’ve got a money-back guarantee.

I'm confident in what I do....

If after the end of the programme, you are not where you want to be, if we’re not vibing or the results aren’t coming through the way we discussed—I’ll give you your cash back, no hard feelings.

It’s about you feeling good about this, and more importantly, feeling good about you.

The whole point is to get you moving toward your goals, not second-guessing whether this was worth it.

We’ll make sure by the time the program’s up, you’ll have shifted your mindset, tackled those limiting beliefs, and started living a life you’re genuinely proud of.

Concerns you might have..... 

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Through my coaching, you’ll cut through the bullshit and get crystal clear on your goals, both personal and professional. We’ll tackle that endless cycle of comparison and self-doubt, replacing it with a mindset that’s unapologetically powerful and resilient. Over 12 weeks, you’ll gain practical strategies to handle life’s crap, boost your confidence, and craft a personalized action plan that actually works for you. By the end, you’ll have a renewed sense of self-worth and the tools to keep pushing forward. Get ready to feel in control, ditch the despair, and wake up excited to live a life that’s all yours—authentically, proudly, and with a big middle finger to the expectations that don’t serve you.

Results you can EXPECT

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So, you’ve read through this and are still questioning if you’re worth investing in? Fuck yes, you are! You absolutely deserve a life that makes you feel excited and proud.

Don’t let those doubts and fears hold you back any longer. Hit that button below and book your discovery session. I’m beyond excited to help you turn those dreams into your reality. Let’s tackle this together and make your life the one you’ve always wanted. I can’t wait to get started—let’s fucking do this!

Lets Do This!! 

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